Transitioning from the college scene dating to the real world, regular world dating. In college, espcially a small college, guys think a little dinner and a little dating is the ticket to keeping the girl happy. See the opening make a move scene is: “Hey why don’t you come over and we can watch some movies or something.” boom they got you and you sitting at their house every time watching tv and movies. Then you make the statement about wanting to do something and they realize they gotta get off their butts and take you somewhere…sometimes you get a good college guy with a job who can afford to take you places. Well, I’m done dating College boys who have goals, but haven’t reached any of them. I need someone that is social, mentally, and financially compatible with me!!! So you would think the next move would be an older guy. Well, I met an older guy, and it could be that he’s just too old! He wants to make me happy, spend time with me outside of the house, and cares about my well being. All good right??? WRONG, his swag is a NEGATIVE! I’m not attracted to him, he can’t dress well enough to be seen with me in public (is that shallow??? so!) He’s not even my type. I’m trying to give him a try just because I’ve been complaining about the others, but I really can’t do this! Where is the College Guy Swagg mixed with the Grown Man Swagg…The world may never know!
Transitional Stage in Dating